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Master Don Juan
This is funny. My wife and her friends always say, "the smaller it is, the bigger it will get."
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What a bunch of dumb b.tches. How big were their tits? These are just shallow wh0reish women who just want some fvcking rod up their vaginas...stupid vessels of nonsense is their brains.BigSmooth said:If any girl tells you that size is "soooooo" overrated, they are probably lying to you. The majority of girls would take an above average penis over a below average one.
Just two nights ago, we were at the bars and there were two girls sitting about 4 ft away from us, and one girl rambled on about how she had sex with her guy friend last night and how small he was. She talked about this for a long ass time, to the point that it was quite disturbing. The other girl then said that "maybe he knows how to use it" but by her tone we knew she didn't mean it. The first girl scoffs and simply stated, "if it's small it's small." And then they proceeded to both laugh.
Sorry for that story, it probably didn't help to reassure you at all but I'm just stating the facts.
I would just try to stay confident because honestly it's not the end of the world and you will find girls who won't care as much. Also if you have any redeeming qualities definitely try to portray and work on them more.
I take it she will measure a person's penis before she has sex with that said person?Capt.America said:Like 5.9....i know that's around the average but girls these days just don't understand. Society brainwashed them to think anything under 6.5 is no good. I remember talking to this girl and she said she wont fucc any guy that's under 7. Its not about the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Harry Wilmington said:Why not just try dating Asian girls? In their culture most men's size tend to be small, so i imagine you would not be laughed at as much.
Also, you may find that the more sex you hvae, the bigger it will get. When i was a virgin i was barely over 6 inches (at age 23); now i'm at 8. I don't know if it had something to do with testosterone increasing during sex or what, but the more i had the bigger it grew!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This guy has it. Contrary to what porn might convey, women orgasm much more easily from oral/****/g-spot stimulation. Do that, and she will hardly care how big you are.flashpoint said:how small is small here?
and learn to "use it". your other tools as well. truth be told vaginal orgasms are rare anyways, you gotta work the other buttons too in order to make that happen. and when it happens your size wont really matter.
Bullchit. They're only rare if you dont know what youre doing. Get vaginal orgasms working consistently and youll have a sex slave for life.flashpoint said:how small is small here?
and learn to "use it". your other tools as well. truth be told vaginal orgasms are rare anyways, you gotta work the other buttons too in order to make that happen. and when it happens your size wont really matter.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ThisConsidering that the average is about 5.5" then you're fine really. You should have just told those b!tches that it wasn't your fault their vaginas were too loose.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.