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Master Don Juan
This is funny. My wife and her friends always say, "the smaller it is, the bigger it will get."
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What a bunch of dumb b.tches. How big were their tits? These are just shallow wh0reish women who just want some fvcking rod up their vaginas...stupid vessels of nonsense is their brains.BigSmooth said:If any girl tells you that size is "soooooo" overrated, they are probably lying to you. The majority of girls would take an above average penis over a below average one.
Just two nights ago, we were at the bars and there were two girls sitting about 4 ft away from us, and one girl rambled on about how she had sex with her guy friend last night and how small he was. She talked about this for a long ass time, to the point that it was quite disturbing. The other girl then said that "maybe he knows how to use it" but by her tone we knew she didn't mean it. The first girl scoffs and simply stated, "if it's small it's small." And then they proceeded to both laugh.
Sorry for that story, it probably didn't help to reassure you at all but I'm just stating the facts.
I would just try to stay confident because honestly it's not the end of the world and you will find girls who won't care as much. Also if you have any redeeming qualities definitely try to portray and work on them more.
I take it she will measure a person's penis before she has sex with that said person?Capt.America said:Like 5.9....i know that's around the average but girls these days just don't understand. Society brainwashed them to think anything under 6.5 is no good. I remember talking to this girl and she said she wont fucc any guy that's under 7. Its not about the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Harry Wilmington said:Why not just try dating Asian girls? In their culture most men's size tend to be small, so i imagine you would not be laughed at as much.
Also, you may find that the more sex you hvae, the bigger it will get. When i was a virgin i was barely over 6 inches (at age 23); now i'm at 8. I don't know if it had something to do with testosterone increasing during sex or what, but the more i had the bigger it grew!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This guy has it. Contrary to what porn might convey, women orgasm much more easily from oral/****/g-spot stimulation. Do that, and she will hardly care how big you are.flashpoint said:how small is small here?
and learn to "use it". your other tools as well. truth be told vaginal orgasms are rare anyways, you gotta work the other buttons too in order to make that happen. and when it happens your size wont really matter.
Bullchit. They're only rare if you dont know what youre doing. Get vaginal orgasms working consistently and youll have a sex slave for life.flashpoint said:how small is small here?
and learn to "use it". your other tools as well. truth be told vaginal orgasms are rare anyways, you gotta work the other buttons too in order to make that happen. and when it happens your size wont really matter.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ThisConsidering that the average is about 5.5" then you're fine really. You should have just told those b!tches that it wasn't your fault their vaginas were too loose.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.