"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Email games....
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Docs
Banned
she's gonna cook you for dinner.
Docs
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Immaculate
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lol.. I just used this tip on a chic I met on the web... She emailed
me wanting to know what I did this weekend so I told her I had a date Saturday but it was OK... anyway it's this chics turn to call me back. I'm not in the damn mood to have to be the pursuer all the time. I called the b!tch from the web first she should call me second no? Instead of "emailing".
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She's asking all these questions like do you like her??
Are you looking for alot of girls, do you go on alot of dates??
lol.. This was a good tip. Props to the OP!
Now this chic wants to get me into messenger and chat... maybe I can coerce her to come over hehehehe
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
her
" are you sure you want to call if you are dating?"
me
"I was just being honest with you so don't run away ok
It is just a date. Have you been on any dates lately?"her
I appreciate your honestly. I've been hurt before so you've got to
understand why I might be reluctant. I haven't been on a date since Aug. I was seeing someone then but it didn't work out. Sweet guy but not the one. Have a great weekend and we'll chat on Sunday evening.
so then I called her on sunday
I opened the conversation with, " hey how are you?. Go on any dates lately?
" she laughed.we had a great conversation and she started asking all these questions about the other girl. She even out right made a joke about wanting to know what she was up against!
The fear of getting hurt has made me attractve to her. She even said that she is taking a chance. I could tell that it was also making things interesting for her.
this bit-ch is already OWNED!