"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Email games....
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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she's gonna cook you for dinner.
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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lol.. I just used this tip on a chic I met on the web... She emailed
me wanting to know what I did this weekend so I told her I had a date Saturday but it was OK... anyway it's this chics turn to call me back. I'm not in the damn mood to have to be the pursuer all the time. I called the b!tch from the web first she should call me second no? Instead of "emailing".
Immaculate
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She's asking all these questions like do you like her??
Are you looking for alot of girls, do you go on alot of dates??
lol.. This was a good tip. Props to the OP!
Now this chic wants to get me into messenger and chat... maybe I can coerce her to come over hehehehe
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
her
" are you sure you want to call if you are dating?"
me
"I was just being honest with you so don't run away ok
It is just a date. Have you been on any dates lately?"her
I appreciate your honestly. I've been hurt before so you've got to
understand why I might be reluctant. I haven't been on a date since Aug. I was seeing someone then but it didn't work out. Sweet guy but not the one. Have a great weekend and we'll chat on Sunday evening.
so then I called her on sunday
I opened the conversation with, " hey how are you?. Go on any dates lately?
" she laughed.we had a great conversation and she started asking all these questions about the other girl. She even out right made a joke about wanting to know what she was up against!
The fear of getting hurt has made me attractve to her. She even said that she is taking a chance. I could tell that it was also making things interesting for her.
this bit-ch is already OWNED!