"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Email games....

00Kevin

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here is the start of an email game with a chick I just met.

her:
Sunday day may pose a problem as I
am going to kickboxing and a movie with my sister. Sorry to be so
inflexible but is there any way to chg it to sat night? Let me know, I swear not every weekend is like this.

Me:

Well, I think sunday is the only day I'll have the chance. I'm working on my websites on sat and tonight I'm going out on a date. I'm not sure what to make of this girl... but I guess I'll find out.

anyway.
have a great weekend.




Anyone want to guess how she will respond?.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Docs
websites are more important?!?! >.<

she's gonna cook you for dinner.
nah.. I think she will be cooking me dinner soon.

at the moment... yes.. my websites make money and yes they are more important.
 

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What the big deal about only going out on weekends anyway?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What the big deal about only going out on weekends anyway?
that is an interesting question. perhaps I should figure that out.

I guess I never gave it much though because when I get home from work I am rather tired and I usually don't feel like going out.
 

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Why don't we just wait until she responds?
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
here is the start of an email game with a chick I just met.

her:
Sunday day may pose a problem as I
am going to kickboxing and a movie with my sister. Sorry to be so
inflexible but is there any way to chg it to sat night? Let me know, I swear not every weekend is like this.

Me:

Well, I think sunday is the only day I'll have the chance. I'm working on my websites on sat and tonight I'm going out on a date. I'm not sure what to make of this girl... but I guess I'll find out.

anyway.
have a great weekend.






Anyone want to guess how she will respond?.

lol.. I just used this tip on a chic I met on the web... She emailed
me wanting to know what I did this weekend so I told her I had a date Saturday but it was OK... anyway it's this chics turn to call me back. I'm not in the damn mood to have to be the pursuer all the time. I called the b!tch from the web first she should call me second no? Instead of "emailing".
 

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Mine already just responded lol!

She's asking all these questions like do you like her??

Are you looking for alot of girls, do you go on alot of dates??


lol.. This was a good tip. Props to the OP!

Now this chic wants to get me into messenger and chat... maybe I can coerce her to come over hehehehe
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok here is the response

her
" are you sure you want to call if you are dating?"

me

"I was just being honest with you so don't run away ok :) It is just a date. :) Have you been on any dates lately?"


her
I appreciate your honestly. I've been hurt before so you've got to
understand why I might be reluctant. I haven't been on a date since Aug. I was seeing someone then but it didn't work out. Sweet guy but not the one. Have a great weekend and we'll chat on Sunday evening.


so then I called her on sunday

I opened the conversation with, " hey how are you?. Go on any dates lately? :) " she laughed.

we had a great conversation and she started asking all these questions about the other girl. She even out right made a joke about wanting to know what she was up against!

The fear of getting hurt has made me attractve to her. She even said that she is taking a chance. I could tell that it was also making things interesting for her.

this bit-ch is already OWNED!
 
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