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Email games....

00Kevin

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here is the start of an email game with a chick I just met.

her:
Sunday day may pose a problem as I
am going to kickboxing and a movie with my sister. Sorry to be so
inflexible but is there any way to chg it to sat night? Let me know, I swear not every weekend is like this.

Me:

Well, I think sunday is the only day I'll have the chance. I'm working on my websites on sat and tonight I'm going out on a date. I'm not sure what to make of this girl... but I guess I'll find out.

anyway.
have a great weekend.




Anyone want to guess how she will respond?.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Docs
websites are more important?!?! >.<

she's gonna cook you for dinner.
nah.. I think she will be cooking me dinner soon.

at the moment... yes.. my websites make money and yes they are more important.
 

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What the big deal about only going out on weekends anyway?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What the big deal about only going out on weekends anyway?
that is an interesting question. perhaps I should figure that out.

I guess I never gave it much though because when I get home from work I am rather tired and I usually don't feel like going out.
 

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Why don't we just wait until she responds?
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
here is the start of an email game with a chick I just met.

her:
Sunday day may pose a problem as I
am going to kickboxing and a movie with my sister. Sorry to be so
inflexible but is there any way to chg it to sat night? Let me know, I swear not every weekend is like this.

Me:

Well, I think sunday is the only day I'll have the chance. I'm working on my websites on sat and tonight I'm going out on a date. I'm not sure what to make of this girl... but I guess I'll find out.

anyway.
have a great weekend.






Anyone want to guess how she will respond?.

lol.. I just used this tip on a chic I met on the web... She emailed
me wanting to know what I did this weekend so I told her I had a date Saturday but it was OK... anyway it's this chics turn to call me back. I'm not in the damn mood to have to be the pursuer all the time. I called the b!tch from the web first she should call me second no? Instead of "emailing".
 

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Mine already just responded lol!

She's asking all these questions like do you like her??

Are you looking for alot of girls, do you go on alot of dates??


lol.. This was a good tip. Props to the OP!

Now this chic wants to get me into messenger and chat... maybe I can coerce her to come over hehehehe
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok here is the response

her
" are you sure you want to call if you are dating?"

me

"I was just being honest with you so don't run away ok :) It is just a date. :) Have you been on any dates lately?"


her
I appreciate your honestly. I've been hurt before so you've got to
understand why I might be reluctant. I haven't been on a date since Aug. I was seeing someone then but it didn't work out. Sweet guy but not the one. Have a great weekend and we'll chat on Sunday evening.


so then I called her on sunday

I opened the conversation with, " hey how are you?. Go on any dates lately? :) " she laughed.

we had a great conversation and she started asking all these questions about the other girl. She even out right made a joke about wanting to know what she was up against!

The fear of getting hurt has made me attractve to her. She even said that she is taking a chance. I could tell that it was also making things interesting for her.

this bit-ch is already OWNED!
 
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