Alright so I'm at something this weekend called Electric Forest (pretty much a 4 day long rave in the forest) so here's my problem I made a bet with myself to make out with at least one girl a day and try and go further if I can, my only problem is idk how to start a conversation out of the blue with someone going here. Any ideas?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Electric Forest help
- Thread starter JDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Have you never been to a rave before? Even when I was AFC I could easily talk to chicks at raves. It's the easiest place in the world to pick up chicks. And it's even easier if you have props. I used to wear glowstick necklaces. Chicks would just come up to me and ask for a necklace. I'd tell them they'd only get the necklace if they did something for me. They would do practically anything I asked. You can also use kandi. Look it up if you don't know what it is. You basically make beaded bracelets and exchange different kandi with girls. It's really easy, and it's almost like a ritual at those things.
gravityeyelids
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Cmon dude you're going to an amazing music experience. Why the fvck are you focused on trying to bang chicks?? You should be focusing on enjoying yourself and the girls will follow.
Please tell me you're not going to be one of those fratty bros who goes to music festivals to get drunk/fvcked up, wear tank tops and try to focus on getting laid the entire time.
Please tell me you're not going to be one of those fratty bros who goes to music festivals to get drunk/fvcked up, wear tank tops and try to focus on getting laid the entire time.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
dagreatgrizz23
Don Juan
Your an idiot
Dude your going to Electric Forest with intention to make out w a girl? God you an Average ****ing Chump. Dude I was just at SAMF two weeks ago and my buddy bailed on me. I was actually gonna sell my ticket but then decided I was gonna just go by myself as I knew lots of people going. On the first day I ran into a friend who was dealing the kitty. So I was rolling balls and doing lines of K. On the second day I went, I couldn't find any of my buddies so I just went to the front row of Jack U and was fingering the **** out of a girl all the way until Hardwell, while rolling balls but no K.
My point? You go to these festivals to have fun. They're a blast with or without women. Plus because I was having fun women were approaching me left and right. Get it together man.
Dude your going to Electric Forest with intention to make out w a girl? God you an Average ****ing Chump. Dude I was just at SAMF two weeks ago and my buddy bailed on me. I was actually gonna sell my ticket but then decided I was gonna just go by myself as I knew lots of people going. On the first day I ran into a friend who was dealing the kitty. So I was rolling balls and doing lines of K. On the second day I went, I couldn't find any of my buddies so I just went to the front row of Jack U and was fingering the **** out of a girl all the way until Hardwell, while rolling balls but no K.
My point? You go to these festivals to have fun. They're a blast with or without women. Plus because I was having fun women were approaching me left and right. Get it together man.