Alright so I'm at something this weekend called Electric Forest (pretty much a 4 day long rave in the forest) so here's my problem I made a bet with myself to make out with at least one girl a day and try and go further if I can, my only problem is idk how to start a conversation out of the blue with someone going here. Any ideas?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Electric Forest help
- Thread starter JDJ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Have you never been to a rave before? Even when I was AFC I could easily talk to chicks at raves. It's the easiest place in the world to pick up chicks. And it's even easier if you have props. I used to wear glowstick necklaces. Chicks would just come up to me and ask for a necklace. I'd tell them they'd only get the necklace if they did something for me. They would do practically anything I asked. You can also use kandi. Look it up if you don't know what it is. You basically make beaded bracelets and exchange different kandi with girls. It's really easy, and it's almost like a ritual at those things.
gravityeyelids
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Cmon dude you're going to an amazing music experience. Why the fvck are you focused on trying to bang chicks?? You should be focusing on enjoying yourself and the girls will follow.
Please tell me you're not going to be one of those fratty bros who goes to music festivals to get drunk/fvcked up, wear tank tops and try to focus on getting laid the entire time.
Please tell me you're not going to be one of those fratty bros who goes to music festivals to get drunk/fvcked up, wear tank tops and try to focus on getting laid the entire time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dagreatgrizz23
Don Juan
Your an idiot
Dude your going to Electric Forest with intention to make out w a girl? God you an Average ****ing Chump. Dude I was just at SAMF two weeks ago and my buddy bailed on me. I was actually gonna sell my ticket but then decided I was gonna just go by myself as I knew lots of people going. On the first day I ran into a friend who was dealing the kitty. So I was rolling balls and doing lines of K. On the second day I went, I couldn't find any of my buddies so I just went to the front row of Jack U and was fingering the **** out of a girl all the way until Hardwell, while rolling balls but no K.
My point? You go to these festivals to have fun. They're a blast with or without women. Plus because I was having fun women were approaching me left and right. Get it together man.
Dude your going to Electric Forest with intention to make out w a girl? God you an Average ****ing Chump. Dude I was just at SAMF two weeks ago and my buddy bailed on me. I was actually gonna sell my ticket but then decided I was gonna just go by myself as I knew lots of people going. On the first day I ran into a friend who was dealing the kitty. So I was rolling balls and doing lines of K. On the second day I went, I couldn't find any of my buddies so I just went to the front row of Jack U and was fingering the **** out of a girl all the way until Hardwell, while rolling balls but no K.
My point? You go to these festivals to have fun. They're a blast with or without women. Plus because I was having fun women were approaching me left and right. Get it together man.