Alright so I'm at something this weekend called Electric Forest (pretty much a 4 day long rave in the forest) so here's my problem I made a bet with myself to make out with at least one girl a day and try and go further if I can, my only problem is idk how to start a conversation out of the blue with someone going here. Any ideas?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Electric Forest help
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Have you never been to a rave before? Even when I was AFC I could easily talk to chicks at raves. It's the easiest place in the world to pick up chicks. And it's even easier if you have props. I used to wear glowstick necklaces. Chicks would just come up to me and ask for a necklace. I'd tell them they'd only get the necklace if they did something for me. They would do practically anything I asked. You can also use kandi. Look it up if you don't know what it is. You basically make beaded bracelets and exchange different kandi with girls. It's really easy, and it's almost like a ritual at those things.
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Cmon dude you're going to an amazing music experience. Why the fvck are you focused on trying to bang chicks?? You should be focusing on enjoying yourself and the girls will follow.
Please tell me you're not going to be one of those fratty bros who goes to music festivals to get drunk/fvcked up, wear tank tops and try to focus on getting laid the entire time.
Please tell me you're not going to be one of those fratty bros who goes to music festivals to get drunk/fvcked up, wear tank tops and try to focus on getting laid the entire time.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dagreatgrizz23
Don Juan
Your an idiot
Dude your going to Electric Forest with intention to make out w a girl? God you an Average ****ing Chump. Dude I was just at SAMF two weeks ago and my buddy bailed on me. I was actually gonna sell my ticket but then decided I was gonna just go by myself as I knew lots of people going. On the first day I ran into a friend who was dealing the kitty. So I was rolling balls and doing lines of K. On the second day I went, I couldn't find any of my buddies so I just went to the front row of Jack U and was fingering the **** out of a girl all the way until Hardwell, while rolling balls but no K.
My point? You go to these festivals to have fun. They're a blast with or without women. Plus because I was having fun women were approaching me left and right. Get it together man.
Dude your going to Electric Forest with intention to make out w a girl? God you an Average ****ing Chump. Dude I was just at SAMF two weeks ago and my buddy bailed on me. I was actually gonna sell my ticket but then decided I was gonna just go by myself as I knew lots of people going. On the first day I ran into a friend who was dealing the kitty. So I was rolling balls and doing lines of K. On the second day I went, I couldn't find any of my buddies so I just went to the front row of Jack U and was fingering the **** out of a girl all the way until Hardwell, while rolling balls but no K.
My point? You go to these festivals to have fun. They're a blast with or without women. Plus because I was having fun women were approaching me left and right. Get it together man.