"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EC. Good days and Bad days.

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On an avg day, I seem to cop alot of EC. Why are there days that I seem to not get social attention?

Like friends wont slap hands with me so much, no smiles from girls..

But on good days, somehow, everyone I know acknowldges me, taps me in the shoulder or arm.. Calls me out.. Points to me, Pounds me and slap hands with me.

Why does this happen? Do you guys get these days too? And why does this happen? Is it mere coincidence?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What a question.
 

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Originally posted by -.-
On an avg day, I seem to cop alot of EC. Why are there days that I seem to not get social attention?

Like friends wont slap hands with me so much, no smiles from girls..

But on good days, somehow, everyone I know acknowldges me, taps me in the shoulder or arm.. Calls me out.. Points to me, Pounds me and slap hands with me.

Why does this happen? Do you guys get these days too? And why does this happen? Is it mere coincidence?
Everyone gets these days, and thats how life is...Stop worrying about it...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by -.-
So it is.. Normal.. Ok. :)
Hey...Have you lived in a bubble or something for the first 17 years of your life, and you just got out? Just asking, I dont mean anything by it...
 

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Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

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You wanted the truth, here is the sad truth.

The first 15 years of my life I was pretty much locked up.

I could not walk the street on my own. I knew no directions, I knew no place except school and my home. I never went out of the house for the whole 15 years of my life.(other than school) I was declared mentally and socially retarded. Suddenly, I snap.

I could not take not knowing any more things, I went out went to the park.

I had access to outside world through the use of internet since around 1998 or 99'.

Just when I turned 18 I got my license I decided to go out and explore the world. This is the truth, wierd life I live, whether u accept it or not.

Any more questions just PM me, I really feel uncomfortable telling people my personal life stories. But i'd like someone who really wants to help me to pm me.
 

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Did you happen to have strict parents? Heaps of Filpino kids I knew had stict ass parents and became very introverted as a result.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Did you happen to have strict parents? Heaps of Filpino kids I knew had stict ass parents and became very introverted as a result.
Yes, but now they dont give a flying fvck. Wierd. They used to be very strict when I was a child. But now.. Blah. Which is all good.. All for the better, I guess.
 

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Well, you're 18. You're a man now and you don't need your parents anymore - you've grown up and it's time to take life by the horns, so to speak.
 

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Re: Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

Originally posted by -.-
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You wanted the truth, here is the sad truth.

The first 15 years of my life I was pretty much locked up.

Oh fukk...Damn....So that explains everything...Thats freaky as hell..:eek: If my parents did something like that I couldnt forgive them...But youre on a good path now...
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Oh fukk...Damn....So that explains everything...Thats freaky as hell..:eek: If my parents did something like that I couldnt forgive them...But youre on a good path now...
Yes, thank you.

And to tell you the truth, I feel like a deranged and caged up animal turned crazed... And suddenly, they opened the cage. Quite an analogy.. But yea, this is how I feel.
 
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