"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EC. Good days and Bad days.

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On an avg day, I seem to cop alot of EC. Why are there days that I seem to not get social attention?

Like friends wont slap hands with me so much, no smiles from girls..

But on good days, somehow, everyone I know acknowldges me, taps me in the shoulder or arm.. Calls me out.. Points to me, Pounds me and slap hands with me.

Why does this happen? Do you guys get these days too? And why does this happen? Is it mere coincidence?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What a question.
 

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Originally posted by -.-
On an avg day, I seem to cop alot of EC. Why are there days that I seem to not get social attention?

Like friends wont slap hands with me so much, no smiles from girls..

But on good days, somehow, everyone I know acknowldges me, taps me in the shoulder or arm.. Calls me out.. Points to me, Pounds me and slap hands with me.

Why does this happen? Do you guys get these days too? And why does this happen? Is it mere coincidence?
Everyone gets these days, and thats how life is...Stop worrying about it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheInfamousCBear

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Originally posted by -.-
So it is.. Normal.. Ok. :)
Hey...Have you lived in a bubble or something for the first 17 years of your life, and you just got out? Just asking, I dont mean anything by it...
 

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Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

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You wanted the truth, here is the sad truth.

The first 15 years of my life I was pretty much locked up.

I could not walk the street on my own. I knew no directions, I knew no place except school and my home. I never went out of the house for the whole 15 years of my life.(other than school) I was declared mentally and socially retarded. Suddenly, I snap.

I could not take not knowing any more things, I went out went to the park.

I had access to outside world through the use of internet since around 1998 or 99'.

Just when I turned 18 I got my license I decided to go out and explore the world. This is the truth, wierd life I live, whether u accept it or not.

Any more questions just PM me, I really feel uncomfortable telling people my personal life stories. But i'd like someone who really wants to help me to pm me.
 

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Did you happen to have strict parents? Heaps of Filpino kids I knew had stict ass parents and became very introverted as a result.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Did you happen to have strict parents? Heaps of Filpino kids I knew had stict ass parents and became very introverted as a result.
Yes, but now they dont give a flying fvck. Wierd. They used to be very strict when I was a child. But now.. Blah. Which is all good.. All for the better, I guess.
 

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Well, you're 18. You're a man now and you don't need your parents anymore - you've grown up and it's time to take life by the horns, so to speak.
 

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Re: Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

Originally posted by -.-
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You wanted the truth, here is the sad truth.

The first 15 years of my life I was pretty much locked up.

Oh fukk...Damn....So that explains everything...Thats freaky as hell..:eek: If my parents did something like that I couldnt forgive them...But youre on a good path now...
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Oh fukk...Damn....So that explains everything...Thats freaky as hell..:eek: If my parents did something like that I couldnt forgive them...But youre on a good path now...
Yes, thank you.

And to tell you the truth, I feel like a deranged and caged up animal turned crazed... And suddenly, they opened the cage. Quite an analogy.. But yea, this is how I feel.
 
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