"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EC. Good days and Bad days.

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On an avg day, I seem to cop alot of EC. Why are there days that I seem to not get social attention?

Like friends wont slap hands with me so much, no smiles from girls..

But on good days, somehow, everyone I know acknowldges me, taps me in the shoulder or arm.. Calls me out.. Points to me, Pounds me and slap hands with me.

Why does this happen? Do you guys get these days too? And why does this happen? Is it mere coincidence?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What a question.
 

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Originally posted by -.-
On an avg day, I seem to cop alot of EC. Why are there days that I seem to not get social attention?

Like friends wont slap hands with me so much, no smiles from girls..

But on good days, somehow, everyone I know acknowldges me, taps me in the shoulder or arm.. Calls me out.. Points to me, Pounds me and slap hands with me.

Why does this happen? Do you guys get these days too? And why does this happen? Is it mere coincidence?
Everyone gets these days, and thats how life is...Stop worrying about it...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheInfamousCBear

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Originally posted by -.-
So it is.. Normal.. Ok. :)
Hey...Have you lived in a bubble or something for the first 17 years of your life, and you just got out? Just asking, I dont mean anything by it...
 

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Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

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You wanted the truth, here is the sad truth.

The first 15 years of my life I was pretty much locked up.

I could not walk the street on my own. I knew no directions, I knew no place except school and my home. I never went out of the house for the whole 15 years of my life.(other than school) I was declared mentally and socially retarded. Suddenly, I snap.

I could not take not knowing any more things, I went out went to the park.

I had access to outside world through the use of internet since around 1998 or 99'.

Just when I turned 18 I got my license I decided to go out and explore the world. This is the truth, wierd life I live, whether u accept it or not.

Any more questions just PM me, I really feel uncomfortable telling people my personal life stories. But i'd like someone who really wants to help me to pm me.
 

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Did you happen to have strict parents? Heaps of Filpino kids I knew had stict ass parents and became very introverted as a result.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Did you happen to have strict parents? Heaps of Filpino kids I knew had stict ass parents and became very introverted as a result.
Yes, but now they dont give a flying fvck. Wierd. They used to be very strict when I was a child. But now.. Blah. Which is all good.. All for the better, I guess.
 

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Well, you're 18. You're a man now and you don't need your parents anymore - you've grown up and it's time to take life by the horns, so to speak.
 

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Re: Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

Originally posted by -.-
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You wanted the truth, here is the sad truth.

The first 15 years of my life I was pretty much locked up.

Oh fukk...Damn....So that explains everything...Thats freaky as hell..:eek: If my parents did something like that I couldnt forgive them...But youre on a good path now...
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: EC. Good days and Bad days.

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Oh fukk...Damn....So that explains everything...Thats freaky as hell..:eek: If my parents did something like that I couldnt forgive them...But youre on a good path now...
Yes, thank you.

And to tell you the truth, I feel like a deranged and caged up animal turned crazed... And suddenly, they opened the cage. Quite an analogy.. But yea, this is how I feel.
 
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