Grinderman
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Agreed.It can put you on a pedestal.
Some things are as old as the hills and will never change: good at oral, humorous, non-needy = she will boast about you to her friends.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Agreed.It can put you on a pedestal.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fully agree - The more she gets from it, the more (and easier) you will get it.Quite the contrary. It can put YOU on a pedestal......
Add a couple fingers and some gspot stimulation.....
Yes, and it's Disgusting - Pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked - No female can ever really respect a pvssy eater!I've heard arguments on both sides in regards to this question: is it "pedastalizing" to eat out a girl?
Some will say its placing too much importance on her and making her gratification the focus of the sex rather than your yourself. Some guys will even say it's irrelevant if the girl cums or not and that her sexual attraction towards you is entirely a mind game.
Personally I do not agree with this... I love going down on a girl and I'll happily do it even on first dates. I like doing it mostly because it relieves some of the pressure to perform knowing that she already came, plus it increases the odds of getting a BJ to 100%. Maybe it is a bit tryhard but most girls have vocalized how impressed they were after I did it and I since I can't always make a girl nut from ****ing her alone, it seems no brainer to do it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
One's temp in their mouth is already close to 100 degrees. Not sure warm water will do anything but lower the temperature of one's mouth. I have heard that having a mint or some sort of menthol candy in one's mouth prior to munching does give a cooling sensation to the ****oris.Next time you eat a girl out, put some warm water in your mouth beforehand.
Trust this.
I used to use Altoids but the best one I discovered was Listerine Breath strips on your tongue. This is the best one so far.One's temp in their mouth is already close to 100 degrees. Not sure warm water will do anything but lower the temperature of one's mouth. I have heard that having a mint or some sort of menthol candy in one's mouth prior to munching does give a cooling sensation to the ****oris.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nope...... i love to eat a new pvssy. The excitement wears off in a LTR though.I've heard arguments on both sides in regards to this question: is it "pedastalizing" to eat out a girl?
Yes, and it's Disgusting - Pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked - No female can ever really respect a pvssy eater!
Unfortunately this has been my experience. All of this post. I’m now entitled as hell in the bedroom and it’s like the women chase the validation harder. It is deranged.I'm selfish in bed. Yeah, you can give me shiit about it, I don't care. But selfish as I am I almost never eat ***** and I don't care if the women comes or not. Again, don't care if you all disagree or call me an ape for being like this.
Most women don't care. They are turned on by me just taking them, using them and coming inside of them. Ofcourse, sometimes a woman will nag about it, but I don't have to see her anymore after this, so again... who cares? In my experience I can tell you this rarely happens. They all seem to come back for more, even though I didn't do jack shiit to get them off.
edit: a woman can enjoy sex without getting an orgasm. She can also get very aroused by getting a dominant man aroused. I think this has a lot to do with it.
However, when I fall in love with a woman and when I want to be in a relationship with her... things change. Then I do eat her out and then I do make an effort to get her to climax via intercourse. They get an orgasm and they are satisfied and happy in my arms afterwards. And do you know what? Does are the women who tend to flake on me afterwards. Those are the ones who picked up on the fact that I tried to please them in bed and they enjoyed it, but lost a bit of attraction for me. In a way it is needy to wanna try and please a woman in bed.
Controversial right?
I've noticed this many times before. This cannot be a coincidance. But yes, before anyone points this one out.. with the women I really like I probably made some more mistakes in terms of neediness and pleasing, so yeah, there's that. It's a package deal.
Women I don't try to please in bed = they keep chasing me, trying to get me. They sense that I didn't even made an effort, therefor I don't give a rat's ass if they stay with me or not. They know.
Women I try to please.. no women I DO please in bed = they know they got me. Why else would I do all this effort in trying to please them? They know I want them to stay with me.
This still boggles me. I wish it were the other way around. It works like this for us men, right? I'll always go back to that one girl who gives me these amazing BJ's..
So true it should be in some kind of Chinese wisdom book or something.Also, the chicks I make orgasm from penetration it always seems to be more about her interest level than anything I do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Some women you just click with sexually. I’ve come to accept that a lot of interactions with women are outside of our control.So true it should be in some kind of Chinese wisdom book or something.
It also highly increases the risk of STD... which is why I don't do it.relieves some of the pressure to perform knowing that she already came, plus it increases the odds of getting a BJ to 100%.
Ye, that's different tho mate.I do it on my wife's birthday, its a pretty big deal. We usually have ice-cream and cake too.![]()
lol, that's too funny mate.Mine was a virgin when I got her. Christ, I can only imagine the after taste of sloppy seconds.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.