"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Eating a girl out

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quite the contrary. It can put YOU on a pedestal......
Add a couple fingers and some gspot stimulation.....
Fully agree - The more she gets from it, the more (and easier) you will get it.
I've already mentioned on another thread... but I found out through the grapevine that one chick I had a few weeks of fun with was telling her friends etc.
Then a few weeks later, bumped into her in a bar with her aunt - the aunt came home with me that night and at one point said... and I quote.. " Kinell!! V**** wasn't lying..." - LOL :rofl:
 

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I've heard arguments on both sides in regards to this question: is it "pedastalizing" to eat out a girl?

Some will say its placing too much importance on her and making her gratification the focus of the sex rather than your yourself. Some guys will even say it's irrelevant if the girl cums or not and that her sexual attraction towards you is entirely a mind game.

Personally I do not agree with this... I love going down on a girl and I'll happily do it even on first dates. I like doing it mostly because it relieves some of the pressure to perform knowing that she already came, plus it increases the odds of getting a BJ to 100%. Maybe it is a bit tryhard but most girls have vocalized how impressed they were after I did it and I since I can't always make a girl nut from ****ing her alone, it seems no brainer to do it.
Yes, and it's Disgusting - Pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked - No female can ever really respect a pvssy eater!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eating pvssy is crack to me I can’t get enough
 

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If i like the girl, i will eat her out. Majority of women dont come from vaginal penertration, so giving her **** some living is my way to please her..although women still do really enjoy my di&k during vaginal sex
 

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Next time you eat a girl out, put some warm water in your mouth beforehand.

Trust this.
One's temp in their mouth is already close to 100 degrees. Not sure warm water will do anything but lower the temperature of one's mouth. I have heard that having a mint or some sort of menthol candy in one's mouth prior to munching does give a cooling sensation to the ****oris.
 

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One's temp in their mouth is already close to 100 degrees. Not sure warm water will do anything but lower the temperature of one's mouth. I have heard that having a mint or some sort of menthol candy in one's mouth prior to munching does give a cooling sensation to the ****oris.
I used to use Altoids but the best one I discovered was Listerine Breath strips on your tongue. This is the best one so far. :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm selfish in bed. Yeah, you can give me shiit about it, I don't care. But selfish as I am I almost never eat ***** and I don't care if the women comes or not. Again, don't care if you all disagree or call me an ape for being like this.

Most women don't care. They are turned on by me just taking them, using them and coming inside of them. Ofcourse, sometimes a woman will nag about it, but I don't have to see her anymore after this, so again... who cares? In my experience I can tell you this rarely happens. They all seem to come back for more, even though I didn't do jack shiit to get them off.

edit: a woman can enjoy sex without getting an orgasm. She can also get very aroused by getting a dominant man aroused. I think this has a lot to do with it.

However, when I fall in love with a woman and when I want to be in a relationship with her... things change. Then I do eat her out and then I do make an effort to get her to climax via intercourse. They get an orgasm and they are satisfied and happy in my arms afterwards. And do you know what? Does are the women who tend to flake on me afterwards. Those are the ones who picked up on the fact that I tried to please them in bed and they enjoyed it, but lost a bit of attraction for me. In a way it is needy to wanna try and please a woman in bed.

Controversial right?

I've noticed this many times before. This cannot be a coincidance. But yes, before anyone points this one out.. with the women I really like I probably made some more mistakes in terms of neediness and pleasing, so yeah, there's that. It's a package deal.

Women I don't try to please in bed = they keep chasing me, trying to get me. They sense that I didn't even made an effort, therefor I don't give a rat's ass if they stay with me or not. They know.

Women I try to please.. no women I DO please in bed = they know they got me. Why else would I do all this effort in trying to please them? They know I want them to stay with me.

This still boggles me. I wish it were the other way around. It works like this for us men, right? I'll always go back to that one girl who gives me these amazing BJ's..
Unfortunately this has been my experience. All of this post. I’m now entitled as hell in the bedroom and it’s like the women chase the validation harder. It is deranged.

Also, the chicks I make orgasm from penetration it always seems to be more about her interest level than anything I do. There have been girls I thought my performance was mediocre and they went to sleep misty eyed and legs shaking.

Men, stop caring so much. I expect to get pvssy and that attitude seems to work better than any one technique.
 

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Also, the chicks I make orgasm from penetration it always seems to be more about her interest level than anything I do.
So true it should be in some kind of Chinese wisdom book or something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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relieves some of the pressure to perform knowing that she already came, plus it increases the odds of getting a BJ to 100%.
It also highly increases the risk of STD... which is why I don't do it.

Remember that you are having a feast where the last bro had his stiff co'ck there not long before you went there licking like it was summer ice cream... :rolleyes:;):eek:
I would need to know her way better before doing that.
 
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Mine was a virgin when I got her. Christ, I can only imagine the after taste of sloppy seconds.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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