Grinderman
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Agreed.It can put you on a pedestal.
Some things are as old as the hills and will never change: good at oral, humorous, non-needy = she will boast about you to her friends.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Agreed.It can put you on a pedestal.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fully agree - The more she gets from it, the more (and easier) you will get it.Quite the contrary. It can put YOU on a pedestal......
Add a couple fingers and some gspot stimulation.....
Yes, and it's Disgusting - Pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked - No female can ever really respect a pvssy eater!I've heard arguments on both sides in regards to this question: is it "pedastalizing" to eat out a girl?
Some will say its placing too much importance on her and making her gratification the focus of the sex rather than your yourself. Some guys will even say it's irrelevant if the girl cums or not and that her sexual attraction towards you is entirely a mind game.
Personally I do not agree with this... I love going down on a girl and I'll happily do it even on first dates. I like doing it mostly because it relieves some of the pressure to perform knowing that she already came, plus it increases the odds of getting a BJ to 100%. Maybe it is a bit tryhard but most girls have vocalized how impressed they were after I did it and I since I can't always make a girl nut from ****ing her alone, it seems no brainer to do it.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
One's temp in their mouth is already close to 100 degrees. Not sure warm water will do anything but lower the temperature of one's mouth. I have heard that having a mint or some sort of menthol candy in one's mouth prior to munching does give a cooling sensation to the ****oris.Next time you eat a girl out, put some warm water in your mouth beforehand.
Trust this.
I used to use Altoids but the best one I discovered was Listerine Breath strips on your tongue. This is the best one so far.One's temp in their mouth is already close to 100 degrees. Not sure warm water will do anything but lower the temperature of one's mouth. I have heard that having a mint or some sort of menthol candy in one's mouth prior to munching does give a cooling sensation to the ****oris.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nope...... i love to eat a new pvssy. The excitement wears off in a LTR though.I've heard arguments on both sides in regards to this question: is it "pedastalizing" to eat out a girl?
Yes, and it's Disgusting - Pvssy is meant to be fvcked not sucked - No female can ever really respect a pvssy eater!
Unfortunately this has been my experience. All of this post. I’m now entitled as hell in the bedroom and it’s like the women chase the validation harder. It is deranged.I'm selfish in bed. Yeah, you can give me shiit about it, I don't care. But selfish as I am I almost never eat ***** and I don't care if the women comes or not. Again, don't care if you all disagree or call me an ape for being like this.
Most women don't care. They are turned on by me just taking them, using them and coming inside of them. Ofcourse, sometimes a woman will nag about it, but I don't have to see her anymore after this, so again... who cares? In my experience I can tell you this rarely happens. They all seem to come back for more, even though I didn't do jack shiit to get them off.
edit: a woman can enjoy sex without getting an orgasm. She can also get very aroused by getting a dominant man aroused. I think this has a lot to do with it.
However, when I fall in love with a woman and when I want to be in a relationship with her... things change. Then I do eat her out and then I do make an effort to get her to climax via intercourse. They get an orgasm and they are satisfied and happy in my arms afterwards. And do you know what? Does are the women who tend to flake on me afterwards. Those are the ones who picked up on the fact that I tried to please them in bed and they enjoyed it, but lost a bit of attraction for me. In a way it is needy to wanna try and please a woman in bed.
Controversial right?
I've noticed this many times before. This cannot be a coincidance. But yes, before anyone points this one out.. with the women I really like I probably made some more mistakes in terms of neediness and pleasing, so yeah, there's that. It's a package deal.
Women I don't try to please in bed = they keep chasing me, trying to get me. They sense that I didn't even made an effort, therefor I don't give a rat's ass if they stay with me or not. They know.
Women I try to please.. no women I DO please in bed = they know they got me. Why else would I do all this effort in trying to please them? They know I want them to stay with me.
This still boggles me. I wish it were the other way around. It works like this for us men, right? I'll always go back to that one girl who gives me these amazing BJ's..
So true it should be in some kind of Chinese wisdom book or something.Also, the chicks I make orgasm from penetration it always seems to be more about her interest level than anything I do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some women you just click with sexually. I’ve come to accept that a lot of interactions with women are outside of our control.So true it should be in some kind of Chinese wisdom book or something.
It also highly increases the risk of STD... which is why I don't do it.relieves some of the pressure to perform knowing that she already came, plus it increases the odds of getting a BJ to 100%.
Ye, that's different tho mate.I do it on my wife's birthday, its a pretty big deal. We usually have ice-cream and cake too.![]()
lol, that's too funny mate.Mine was a virgin when I got her. Christ, I can only imagine the after taste of sloppy seconds.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.