"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Easily aroused..

BwanaKuu

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So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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magickarl

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Probably has a great deal to do with it.

Is it a problem for you?

I'm sure that when a lady grabs down there to touch you, she will be pleased that she has your "attention"
 

Aragon034

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i'd say so, but then again i've had the same happen to me, the result of which was excruciating.
 
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you just need more exposure to girls.......go find a niche where u get to hang out with girls......but keep one thing in mind. You need to play the game like a man not like a wussy. Looking at ur situation, u have more tendency to act needy towards them, because there is always an urge to satisfy ur first ever gratification.Read articles from sosuave.com. Learn few pick up lines too.After using them with few girls, they start running in ur blood and u can decorate them according to the situation/personality....
 

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I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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brewbaron

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I'm the same way. and its nothing to worry about. my gf says I go from 0-60 in no time flat but she loves it, I don't take much warming up ;)

Dergz said:
I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

DJ Shaka

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BwanaKuu said:
So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
Dude there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Enjoy it!
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I'm usually hard before I'm undressed. Except for when I was with my ex...I had been banging the same girl for so long it just didn't excite me the way it did in the beginning...
 
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