"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Easily aroused..

BwanaKuu

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So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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magickarl

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Probably has a great deal to do with it.

Is it a problem for you?

I'm sure that when a lady grabs down there to touch you, she will be pleased that she has your "attention"
 

Aragon034

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i'd say so, but then again i've had the same happen to me, the result of which was excruciating.
 
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you just need more exposure to girls.......go find a niche where u get to hang out with girls......but keep one thing in mind. You need to play the game like a man not like a wussy. Looking at ur situation, u have more tendency to act needy towards them, because there is always an urge to satisfy ur first ever gratification.Read articles from sosuave.com. Learn few pick up lines too.After using them with few girls, they start running in ur blood and u can decorate them according to the situation/personality....
 

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I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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brewbaron

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I'm the same way. and its nothing to worry about. my gf says I go from 0-60 in no time flat but she loves it, I don't take much warming up ;)

Dergz said:
I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

DJ Shaka

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BwanaKuu said:
So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
Dude there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Enjoy it!
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I'm usually hard before I'm undressed. Except for when I was with my ex...I had been banging the same girl for so long it just didn't excite me the way it did in the beginning...
 
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