"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Easily aroused..

BwanaKuu

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So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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magickarl

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Probably has a great deal to do with it.

Is it a problem for you?

I'm sure that when a lady grabs down there to touch you, she will be pleased that she has your "attention"
 

Aragon034

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i'd say so, but then again i've had the same happen to me, the result of which was excruciating.
 
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you just need more exposure to girls.......go find a niche where u get to hang out with girls......but keep one thing in mind. You need to play the game like a man not like a wussy. Looking at ur situation, u have more tendency to act needy towards them, because there is always an urge to satisfy ur first ever gratification.Read articles from sosuave.com. Learn few pick up lines too.After using them with few girls, they start running in ur blood and u can decorate them according to the situation/personality....
 

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I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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brewbaron

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I'm the same way. and its nothing to worry about. my gf says I go from 0-60 in no time flat but she loves it, I don't take much warming up ;)

Dergz said:
I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

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BwanaKuu said:
So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
Dude there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Enjoy it!
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I'm usually hard before I'm undressed. Except for when I was with my ex...I had been banging the same girl for so long it just didn't excite me the way it did in the beginning...
 
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