"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Easily aroused..

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BwanaKuu

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So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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magickarl

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Probably has a great deal to do with it.

Is it a problem for you?

I'm sure that when a lady grabs down there to touch you, she will be pleased that she has your "attention"
 
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Aragon034

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i'd say so, but then again i've had the same happen to me, the result of which was excruciating.
 
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beginner_to_the_game

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you just need more exposure to girls.......go find a niche where u get to hang out with girls......but keep one thing in mind. You need to play the game like a man not like a wussy. Looking at ur situation, u have more tendency to act needy towards them, because there is always an urge to satisfy ur first ever gratification.Read articles from sosuave.com. Learn few pick up lines too.After using them with few girls, they start running in ur blood and u can decorate them according to the situation/personality....
 
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I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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brewbaron

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I'm the same way. and its nothing to worry about. my gf says I go from 0-60 in no time flat but she loves it, I don't take much warming up ;)

Dergz said:
I used to be like that before i got laid, and you know what? I'm still easily aroused and i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT! no matter how many times i get laid i just can't get used to it enough to ignore it.
So no worries man, it's perfectly normal.

Better that than to have a stiffy when a dude brushes past you!
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BwanaKuu said:
So, I get aroused VERY easily by girls. Even the slightest touch starts to get me hard. Yes, I am a virgin, does that have something to do with it?
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Dude there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Enjoy it!
 
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guywhoneedshelp

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I'm usually hard before I'm undressed. Except for when I was with my ex...I had been banging the same girl for so long it just didn't excite me the way it did in the beginning...
 
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