"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I know many people who have done it. And I hate to say it, but ear piercings look kinda..fruity.
 
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Both ears, captive ball rings. Go to an actual body piercer to get it done, a place where they use a needle. Don't go to Claire's.
 

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yea, i got my left ear pierced... it's cool my parents were pissed.. but they got used to it... then they got cool with it.. for mybirthday they bought be a stud expensive real gold one and ****... crazy....i like studs...my is small and it's rectangular....
 

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KillaCam said:
I know many people who have done it. And I hate to say it, but ear piercings look kinda..fruity.
I use to think the same thing until I got both of my ears pierced and I can honestly say I should have done it a long time ago. It adds something to you overall look that's just make you stand out more than you would without them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ive just had my left ear done, didnt hurt at first but my ear lobe is pretty sensitive at the moment. Gotta leave this in for 6 weeks, with constant cleaning/spinning of the stud, then i can put my own in (diamond :D). I would say it does add to your overall image, i'd say definately go for it!
 

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I use to think the same thing until I got both of my ears pierced and I can honestly say I should have done it a long time ago. It adds something to you overall look that's just make you stand out more than you would without them.
I'll trust you on that. I'm sure on the right person is can look good, just don't over feminize yourself ;)
 
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i asked a few girls and they all did theirs at claires, none of them have died...so a gun piercing can't be that bad can it?

i am also going to bootcamp in a month, so would it be better if i pierced it after?
 

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I don't support gun piercing because the people who do them aren't trained body piercers. They just point the gun at your ear in a rough approximation of where you want the earring, pull the trigger, and hope for the best as the jewelry smashes through your flesh... Needle piercing is comparatively clean, and the piercing heals much cleaner. It's also a rush to feel the needle going through your ear.

Bootcamp as in military bootcamp? You probably shouldn't get a piercing at all, if that's the case.
 

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I have both of my ears pierced with silver and diamond hoops. Sharp as a tack! The shine on my head far outweighs the shine of my jewelry though.

It's rare for me to venture out into the world without chicks asking to rub my head for "luck" . . .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I pierced both of my own and have "diamond" studs in them. Goes nice with my clean cut style.
 
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doctoroxygen said:
I don't support gun piercing because the people who do them aren't trained body piercers. They just point the gun at your ear in a rough approximation of where you want the earring, pull the trigger, and hope for the best as the jewelry smashes through your flesh... Needle piercing is comparatively clean, and the piercing heals much cleaner. It's also a rush to feel the needle going through your ear.

Bootcamp as in military bootcamp? You probably shouldn't get a piercing at all, if that's the case.
i enlisted in the reserves, but during my spare time i would like a earring, thats all. if i get it pierced now, and goes off in a month, would the dirty environment cause an infection easily?
 

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if it goes off in a month it would just close back up.
I have 3, one in left, 2 in right. Circular stud (actually a bar) in left. Round and cone stud in left. But, I have a bunch so I am always switching them around... And i cant stand diamonds
 

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Yeah, you need to leave the jewelry in the piercing for at least three months if you get studs.
 

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Make sure the rest of your style is overall strongly masculine, and an earring offsets it well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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