"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know many people who have done it. And I hate to say it, but ear piercings look kinda..fruity.
 
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Both ears, captive ball rings. Go to an actual body piercer to get it done, a place where they use a needle. Don't go to Claire's.
 

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yea, i got my left ear pierced... it's cool my parents were pissed.. but they got used to it... then they got cool with it.. for mybirthday they bought be a stud expensive real gold one and ****... crazy....i like studs...my is small and it's rectangular....
 

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KillaCam said:
I know many people who have done it. And I hate to say it, but ear piercings look kinda..fruity.
I use to think the same thing until I got both of my ears pierced and I can honestly say I should have done it a long time ago. It adds something to you overall look that's just make you stand out more than you would without them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ive just had my left ear done, didnt hurt at first but my ear lobe is pretty sensitive at the moment. Gotta leave this in for 6 weeks, with constant cleaning/spinning of the stud, then i can put my own in (diamond :D). I would say it does add to your overall image, i'd say definately go for it!
 

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Faded Image said:
I use to think the same thing until I got both of my ears pierced and I can honestly say I should have done it a long time ago. It adds something to you overall look that's just make you stand out more than you would without them.
I'll trust you on that. I'm sure on the right person is can look good, just don't over feminize yourself ;)
 
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i asked a few girls and they all did theirs at claires, none of them have died...so a gun piercing can't be that bad can it?

i am also going to bootcamp in a month, so would it be better if i pierced it after?
 

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I don't support gun piercing because the people who do them aren't trained body piercers. They just point the gun at your ear in a rough approximation of where you want the earring, pull the trigger, and hope for the best as the jewelry smashes through your flesh... Needle piercing is comparatively clean, and the piercing heals much cleaner. It's also a rush to feel the needle going through your ear.

Bootcamp as in military bootcamp? You probably shouldn't get a piercing at all, if that's the case.
 

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I have both of my ears pierced with silver and diamond hoops. Sharp as a tack! The shine on my head far outweighs the shine of my jewelry though.

It's rare for me to venture out into the world without chicks asking to rub my head for "luck" . . .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I pierced both of my own and have "diamond" studs in them. Goes nice with my clean cut style.
 
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doctoroxygen said:
I don't support gun piercing because the people who do them aren't trained body piercers. They just point the gun at your ear in a rough approximation of where you want the earring, pull the trigger, and hope for the best as the jewelry smashes through your flesh... Needle piercing is comparatively clean, and the piercing heals much cleaner. It's also a rush to feel the needle going through your ear.

Bootcamp as in military bootcamp? You probably shouldn't get a piercing at all, if that's the case.
i enlisted in the reserves, but during my spare time i would like a earring, thats all. if i get it pierced now, and goes off in a month, would the dirty environment cause an infection easily?
 

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if it goes off in a month it would just close back up.
I have 3, one in left, 2 in right. Circular stud (actually a bar) in left. Round and cone stud in left. But, I have a bunch so I am always switching them around... And i cant stand diamonds
 

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Yeah, you need to leave the jewelry in the piercing for at least three months if you get studs.
 

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Make sure the rest of your style is overall strongly masculine, and an earring offsets it well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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