"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Each body part, once a week... enough?

NickSCFC2000

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My current workout is like this...

Monday - Back and Biceps
Weds - Chest and Triceps
Fri - Shoulders and Legs
Sat (at home) - Biceps

I usually do 4 exercises per body part at the gym, 4 sets at arounds 10 reps, sometimes with drop sets. Also I now do biceps twice a week as they're skinny as **** (from an old forearms injury and not being able to do curls for a year).

But is once a week enough?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warboss Alex

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short answer: yes

stop doing biceps on saturday, more is not better.
 

blinkwatt

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Warboss Alex said:
stop doing biceps on saturday, more is not better.
Sound advice! Remember that traps,abs & biceps are small muscles and are very easy to overwork!
 

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blinkwatt said:
Sound advice! Remember that traps,abs & biceps are small muscles and are very easy to overwork!
Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
 

howardalex

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Wanderer* said:
Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
I do mine every day for MMA but if you wanna gain bigger abs you should work them out once a week, low reps heavy weights
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
Most people are idiots.
 

Charm&Style

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Kev07 said:
my workout goes like this

chest
back
rest
legs
arms/shoulders
rest
rest
repeat
nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.


How many diff excerises do you do for each body part??
 

shaunuk

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nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.
Iron Addict wrote this basic 2day routine:

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8
Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12
Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8
Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12
Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure
Barbell Row 2 x 8
EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10
Squats 2 x 10
Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

-shaun
 

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Charm&Style said:
nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.


How many diff excerises do you do for each body part??

?!?!?!? i have 4 days, each line is a day lol sorry if you misunderstood
sunday:chest
mon: back
tues:break
weds:legs
thurs: arms
fri-sat rest
repeat:box:

2 days would be horrible imo, at LEAST 3 days
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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