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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Each body part, once a week... enough?

NickSCFC2000

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My current workout is like this...

Monday - Back and Biceps
Weds - Chest and Triceps
Fri - Shoulders and Legs
Sat (at home) - Biceps

I usually do 4 exercises per body part at the gym, 4 sets at arounds 10 reps, sometimes with drop sets. Also I now do biceps twice a week as they're skinny as **** (from an old forearms injury and not being able to do curls for a year).

But is once a week enough?
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warboss Alex

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short answer: yes

stop doing biceps on saturday, more is not better.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
stop doing biceps on saturday, more is not better.
Sound advice! Remember that traps,abs & biceps are small muscles and are very easy to overwork!
 

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blinkwatt said:
Sound advice! Remember that traps,abs & biceps are small muscles and are very easy to overwork!
Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
 

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Wanderer* said:
Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
I do mine every day for MMA but if you wanna gain bigger abs you should work them out once a week, low reps heavy weights
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
Most people are idiots.
 

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Kev07 said:
my workout goes like this

chest
back
rest
legs
arms/shoulders
rest
rest
repeat
nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.


How many diff excerises do you do for each body part??
 

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nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.
Iron Addict wrote this basic 2day routine:

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8
Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12
Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8
Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12
Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure
Barbell Row 2 x 8
EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10
Squats 2 x 10
Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

-shaun
 

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Charm&Style said:
nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.


How many diff excerises do you do for each body part??

?!?!?!? i have 4 days, each line is a day lol sorry if you misunderstood
sunday:chest
mon: back
tues:break
weds:legs
thurs: arms
fri-sat rest
repeat:box:

2 days would be horrible imo, at LEAST 3 days
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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