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Each body part, once a week... enough?

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My current workout is like this...

Monday - Back and Biceps
Weds - Chest and Triceps
Fri - Shoulders and Legs
Sat (at home) - Biceps

I usually do 4 exercises per body part at the gym, 4 sets at arounds 10 reps, sometimes with drop sets. Also I now do biceps twice a week as they're skinny as **** (from an old forearms injury and not being able to do curls for a year).

But is once a week enough?
 

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Warboss Alex

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short answer: yes

stop doing biceps on saturday, more is not better.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
stop doing biceps on saturday, more is not better.
Sound advice! Remember that traps,abs & biceps are small muscles and are very easy to overwork!
 

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blinkwatt said:
Sound advice! Remember that traps,abs & biceps are small muscles and are very easy to overwork!
Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
 

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Wanderer* said:
Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
I do mine every day for MMA but if you wanna gain bigger abs you should work them out once a week, low reps heavy weights
 

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Don't most pple work the abs usually 3x per week?
Most people are idiots.
 

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Kev07 said:
my workout goes like this

chest
back
rest
legs
arms/shoulders
rest
rest
repeat
nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.


How many diff excerises do you do for each body part??
 

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nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.
Iron Addict wrote this basic 2day routine:

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8
Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12
Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8
Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12
Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure
Barbell Row 2 x 8
EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10
Squats 2 x 10
Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

-shaun
 

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Charm&Style said:
nice, A 2day workout, something i should look for since i barely have any rest days being a full-time college kid and working almost full-time.


How many diff excerises do you do for each body part??

?!?!?!? i have 4 days, each line is a day lol sorry if you misunderstood
sunday:chest
mon: back
tues:break
weds:legs
thurs: arms
fri-sat rest
repeat:box:

2 days would be horrible imo, at LEAST 3 days
 

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