"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dumbells: What weight?

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I'm about 135 and obviously want to bulk up, ive read some weightlifting websites and basically they say a lot can be achieved using dumbells if you do the right exercises, so what weight of dumbells would be heavy enough for a guy of my weight to do only 5-7 reps of like suggested in diesels guide to bulking up
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If u got dumbells that allow you to do 5-7 reps they`d be too light after a few weeks.....your goal will be to constantly lift more weight staying in the same rep range. Do what ultrashotgun said
 
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For bulking, focusing on form and doing them slowly may be a better bet than just lifting as much as you can.
 
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For bulking, focusing on form and doing them slowly may be a better bet than just lifting as much as you can.
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Lift as much as you can with proper form ;-)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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