"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Drunk love texts from gf
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BeDJ
Guest
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Giving-in to which might seem nice but can undermine things if you do it too much.
Don't reply to everything and put any reply on hold for a while and keep some mystery about the delay - unless you are genuinely so in charge of your responses that you don't care two-hoots about what she says and you reply.
1stRollo Tomassi said:
I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want
2nd
Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me
never been happier. Im glad ive got you <3I replied to last one "cute and i know. What a disaster
"I get these when she sober, just not as intense..
Ur take on it?
has she ever cheated on you? have you ever suspected anything?PLAYED said:1st
I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want
2nd
Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me
I replied to last one "cute and i know. What a disaster
I get these when she sober, just not as intense..
Ur take on it?
PLAYED said:1st
I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want
2nd
Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me
I replied to last one "cute and i know. What a disaster
I get these when she sober, just not as intense..
Ur take on it?
why when I saw the 2nd text the phrase came to my mind, "too bad you was a bad girlfriend, now is too late for you. " i'm finally learning something?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BeDJ
Guest
too bad you was a bad girlfriend
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
2nd - I know (you handled this well).
Curious what RT has to say!
SH
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
1st
I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want
2nd
Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me never been happier. Im glad ive got you <3
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
You'll start a she game with her if you ask her to stop.
SH
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.