"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Drunk love texts from gf

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What to respond to these kind of texts, or just ignore them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I drunk text my GF all the time, so I won't do it to the women I'm dating. She responds and I look back at how stupid I am the next morning. Ignore it and your sanity will thank you.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I drunk text my GF all the time, so I won't do it to the women I'm dating. She responds and I look back at how stupid I am the next morning. Ignore it and your sanity will thank you.
I'm normally at work, so I'm sober. Just wondered if u guys wud text back as its everytime she goes out (I don't mind it)
 

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Post them here and I'll tell you what the truth serum revealed about her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like she's bored and looking for attention, a bit of power, gratification or validation.

Giving-in to which might seem nice but can undermine things if you do it too much.

Don't reply to everything and put any reply on hold for a while and keep some mystery about the delay - unless you are genuinely so in charge of your responses that you don't care two-hoots about what she says and you reply.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Post them here and I'll tell you what the truth serum revealed about her.
1st

I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want

2nd

Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me :) never been happier. Im glad ive got you <3

I replied to last one "cute and i know. What a disaster ;)"

I get these when she sober, just not as intense..

Ur take on it?
 

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What to respond to these kind of texts, or just ignore them?
The better question is, why aren't you with her when she's getting drunk? ;)
 

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I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want

2nd

Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me :) never been happier. Im glad ive got you <3

I replied to last one "cute and i know. What a disaster ;)"

I get these when she sober, just not as intense..

Ur take on it?
has she ever cheated on you? have you ever suspected anything?
 

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I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want

2nd

Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me :) never been happier. Im glad ive got you <3

I replied to last one "cute and i know. What a disaster ;)"

I get these when she sober, just not as intense..

Ur take on it?

why when I saw the 2nd text the phrase came to my mind, "too bad you was a bad girlfriend, now is too late for you. " i'm finally learning something?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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too bad you was a bad girlfriend, now is too late for you.

too bad you was a bad girlfriend


YOU WAS
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
 

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1st - then get over here and speak into the microphone.
2nd - I know (you handled this well).

Curious what RT has to say!

SH
 

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too bad you was a bad girlfriend, now is too late for you.

too bad you was a bad girlfriend


YOU WAS
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
YOU WAS
I don't get it...
 

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betheman said:
has she ever cheated on you? have you ever suspected anything?
No, not that I know of. She shows no signs. Unless very good at hiding it
 

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Any suggestions, can't just reply I know or ignore all her messages all the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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post some of the messages
 

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Example msgs

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I want too come ur work and have my way with you. Wet thinking about it. I want you right now. Want to suck you off right now its all i want

2nd

Babe. No messing right now i love you 110%. Ur the best boyfriend ever i couldnt get any better and do anything for you. Your just amazing hope you know. You mean so much too me never been happier. Im glad ive got you <3
 

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does she back these texts up with action?
 

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If you like the chick, then just don't answer them until next day.
You'll start a she game with her if you ask her to stop.

SH
 

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No translation necessary.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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