"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Drunk girls

dmatter

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how do you deal with drunk girls yest i was at a party and when i sat down theis girl came on put her arm on me sayin she wanted to go to a diner we just talked for a bit and then she left but she was kinda drunk but still i wanna know what you hve to do in order to get them to leave with you or makeout.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bam bam

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dont go after drunk girls go after sober once... going after drunks girls is kinda lame dude... go after woman that are alert not messed up on chemicals.
 

BudBundi

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You have to tell them you want to fvck them. In your dinner example you could've responded with something about going back to your place instead (or upstairs, whatever is convenient.)
 

shaunuk

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most of the time you can be more direct with drunk girls. just makeout with them and get them to go back to your place.

it's the same sort of game...just easier :)
 

fourblueballs

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Drunk girls are not my style. I would have teased and messed with them. Flirted a bit too.. to create the vibe of.. this guy is fun. To the hot sober girls around. Or even used the hot drunk girls.. as a pawn.. and called over one of the hot sober ones. Think on your feet. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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handle

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ideally, you should be drunk too. If you aren't, that's not cool.

Usually the reaction should be laughing at how drunk she is and looking over at the sober people like "oh man, this is funny hey guys?"
 

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Bang a drunk girl at your peril -- especially if you're more coherent than she is. The last thing you need/want is for your ONS to wake up the next morning with no memory of the night before and decide she was raped.
 

oakraiderz2

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Umm...if youre not drunk as well hit yourself in the face for being a creep.
 
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