how do you deal with drunk girls yest i was at a party and when i sat down theis girl came on put her arm on me sayin she wanted to go to a diner we just talked for a bit and then she left but she was kinda drunk but still i wanna know what you hve to do in order to get them to leave with you or makeout.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Drunk girls
- Thread starter dmatter
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BudBundi
Don Juan
You have to tell them you want to fvck them. In your dinner example you could've responded with something about going back to your place instead (or upstairs, whatever is convenient.)
fourblueballs
Don Juan
Drunk girls are not my style. I would have teased and messed with them. Flirted a bit too.. to create the vibe of.. this guy is fun. To the hot sober girls around. Or even used the hot drunk girls.. as a pawn.. and called over one of the hot sober ones. Think on your feet. 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
#41
Senior Don Juan
Bang a drunk girl at your peril -- especially if you're more coherent than she is. The last thing you need/want is for your ONS to wake up the next morning with no memory of the night before and decide she was raped.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Umm...if youre not drunk as well hit yourself in the face for being a creep.