"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Drunk girls

dmatter

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how do you deal with drunk girls yest i was at a party and when i sat down theis girl came on put her arm on me sayin she wanted to go to a diner we just talked for a bit and then she left but she was kinda drunk but still i wanna know what you hve to do in order to get them to leave with you or makeout.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bam bam

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dont go after drunk girls go after sober once... going after drunks girls is kinda lame dude... go after woman that are alert not messed up on chemicals.
 

BudBundi

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You have to tell them you want to fvck them. In your dinner example you could've responded with something about going back to your place instead (or upstairs, whatever is convenient.)
 

shaunuk

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most of the time you can be more direct with drunk girls. just makeout with them and get them to go back to your place.

it's the same sort of game...just easier :)
 

fourblueballs

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Drunk girls are not my style. I would have teased and messed with them. Flirted a bit too.. to create the vibe of.. this guy is fun. To the hot sober girls around. Or even used the hot drunk girls.. as a pawn.. and called over one of the hot sober ones. Think on your feet. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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handle

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ideally, you should be drunk too. If you aren't, that's not cool.

Usually the reaction should be laughing at how drunk she is and looking over at the sober people like "oh man, this is funny hey guys?"
 

#41

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Bang a drunk girl at your peril -- especially if you're more coherent than she is. The last thing you need/want is for your ONS to wake up the next morning with no memory of the night before and decide she was raped.
 

oakraiderz2

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Umm...if youre not drunk as well hit yourself in the face for being a creep.
 
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