"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dmatter

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how do you deal with drunk girls yest i was at a party and when i sat down theis girl came on put her arm on me sayin she wanted to go to a diner we just talked for a bit and then she left but she was kinda drunk but still i wanna know what you hve to do in order to get them to leave with you or makeout.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bam bam

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dont go after drunk girls go after sober once... going after drunks girls is kinda lame dude... go after woman that are alert not messed up on chemicals.
 

BudBundi

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You have to tell them you want to fvck them. In your dinner example you could've responded with something about going back to your place instead (or upstairs, whatever is convenient.)
 

shaunuk

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most of the time you can be more direct with drunk girls. just makeout with them and get them to go back to your place.

it's the same sort of game...just easier :)
 

fourblueballs

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Drunk girls are not my style. I would have teased and messed with them. Flirted a bit too.. to create the vibe of.. this guy is fun. To the hot sober girls around. Or even used the hot drunk girls.. as a pawn.. and called over one of the hot sober ones. Think on your feet. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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handle

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ideally, you should be drunk too. If you aren't, that's not cool.

Usually the reaction should be laughing at how drunk she is and looking over at the sober people like "oh man, this is funny hey guys?"
 

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Bang a drunk girl at your peril -- especially if you're more coherent than she is. The last thing you need/want is for your ONS to wake up the next morning with no memory of the night before and decide she was raped.
 

oakraiderz2

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Umm...if youre not drunk as well hit yourself in the face for being a creep.
 
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