So last night me and my friend was about to head home from a night out. I met this girl who was clearly drunk and she kept telling me I'm cute and so on. Long story short, we had a decent convo for about 10 mins about our background and future but still drunk. She told me to take her number and text her. She is really cute and seems cool. She mention that she wants to go on a date and how she is on OKCUPID and don't like the guys there. Should I take the chance on this chick?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Drunk Girl gave me number
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DragonBlood
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YESNYCJoey22 said:
Post back and let us know how it goes.
cordoncordon
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I say live dangerously and go on a date!!! 
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Send a text, see what happens man.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.