So last night me and my friend was about to head home from a night out. I met this girl who was clearly drunk and she kept telling me I'm cute and so on. Long story short, we had a decent convo for about 10 mins about our background and future but still drunk. She told me to take her number and text her. She is really cute and seems cool. She mention that she wants to go on a date and how she is on OKCUPID and don't like the guys there. Should I take the chance on this chick?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Drunk Girl gave me number
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DragonBlood
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YESNYCJoey22 said:
Post back and let us know how it goes.
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I say live dangerously and go on a date!!! 
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
VladPatton
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Send a text, see what happens man.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.