So last night me and my friend was about to head home from a night out. I met this girl who was clearly drunk and she kept telling me I'm cute and so on. Long story short, we had a decent convo for about 10 mins about our background and future but still drunk. She told me to take her number and text her. She is really cute and seems cool. She mention that she wants to go on a date and how she is on OKCUPID and don't like the guys there. Should I take the chance on this chick?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Drunk Girl gave me number
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DragonBlood
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YESNYCJoey22 said:
Post back and let us know how it goes.
cordoncordon
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I say live dangerously and go on a date!!! 
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
VladPatton
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Send a text, see what happens man.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.