So last night me and my friend was about to head home from a night out. I met this girl who was clearly drunk and she kept telling me I'm cute and so on. Long story short, we had a decent convo for about 10 mins about our background and future but still drunk. She told me to take her number and text her. She is really cute and seems cool. She mention that she wants to go on a date and how she is on OKCUPID and don't like the guys there. Should I take the chance on this chick?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Drunk Girl gave me number
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DragonBlood
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YESNYCJoey22 said:
Post back and let us know how it goes.
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I say live dangerously and go on a date!!! 
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
Yes I'm being sarcastic. Why is going on a date with this girl even a question? It's a no brainer man.
VladPatton
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Send a text, see what happens man.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.