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How old is too old to get loaded at the bars on the weekend with friends?
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Yeah...it is serious because all the time I hear guys saying they are too old to get hammered at the bar.
Or at least, that is how they try to portray themselves.
As if, getting loaded one night a week at the bar past a certain age begins to have a negative connotation?
Or at least, that is how they try to portray themselves.
As if, getting loaded one night a week at the bar past a certain age begins to have a negative connotation?
Guys who say that they are too old for it, may have 'grown out' of the bar/party scene. That's their own issue.
On the other hand, there is a large number of guys that are just using age as an excuse for why their life sucks. Believe me, when they were "young" they had other limiting beliefs that were holding them back just as much, and as they got older, they transfered their insecurity onto their age. Remember, insecurity can take many forms and as one grows older, age becomes a convenient excuse.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify that it's FINE if a guy feels he has truly outgrown the bar scene. To each, their own. That is, as long as it's not a personal insecurity issue being pushed on others.
On the other hand, there is a large number of guys that are just using age as an excuse for why their life sucks. Believe me, when they were "young" they had other limiting beliefs that were holding them back just as much, and as they got older, they transfered their insecurity onto their age. Remember, insecurity can take many forms and as one grows older, age becomes a convenient excuse.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify that it's FINE if a guy feels he has truly outgrown the bar scene. To each, their own. That is, as long as it's not a personal insecurity issue being pushed on others.
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