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How old is too old to get loaded at the bars on the weekend with friends?
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Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Drinking at the Bars?
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Just try not to become 'that guy.'
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Yeah...it is serious because all the time I hear guys saying they are too old to get hammered at the bar.
Or at least, that is how they try to portray themselves.
As if, getting loaded one night a week at the bar past a certain age begins to have a negative connotation?
Or at least, that is how they try to portray themselves.
As if, getting loaded one night a week at the bar past a certain age begins to have a negative connotation?
Guys who say that they are too old for it, may have 'grown out' of the bar/party scene. That's their own issue.
On the other hand, there is a large number of guys that are just using age as an excuse for why their life sucks. Believe me, when they were "young" they had other limiting beliefs that were holding them back just as much, and as they got older, they transfered their insecurity onto their age. Remember, insecurity can take many forms and as one grows older, age becomes a convenient excuse.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify that it's FINE if a guy feels he has truly outgrown the bar scene. To each, their own. That is, as long as it's not a personal insecurity issue being pushed on others.
On the other hand, there is a large number of guys that are just using age as an excuse for why their life sucks. Believe me, when they were "young" they had other limiting beliefs that were holding them back just as much, and as they got older, they transfered their insecurity onto their age. Remember, insecurity can take many forms and as one grows older, age becomes a convenient excuse.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify that it's FINE if a guy feels he has truly outgrown the bar scene. To each, their own. That is, as long as it's not a personal insecurity issue being pushed on others.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.