CharlieHarper1040
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How old is too old to get loaded at the bars on the weekend with friends?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Drinking at the Bars?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Just try not to become 'that guy.'
CharlieHarper1040
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Yeah...it is serious because all the time I hear guys saying they are too old to get hammered at the bar.
Or at least, that is how they try to portray themselves.
As if, getting loaded one night a week at the bar past a certain age begins to have a negative connotation?
Or at least, that is how they try to portray themselves.
As if, getting loaded one night a week at the bar past a certain age begins to have a negative connotation?
Guys who say that they are too old for it, may have 'grown out' of the bar/party scene. That's their own issue.
On the other hand, there is a large number of guys that are just using age as an excuse for why their life sucks. Believe me, when they were "young" they had other limiting beliefs that were holding them back just as much, and as they got older, they transfered their insecurity onto their age. Remember, insecurity can take many forms and as one grows older, age becomes a convenient excuse.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify that it's FINE if a guy feels he has truly outgrown the bar scene. To each, their own. That is, as long as it's not a personal insecurity issue being pushed on others.
On the other hand, there is a large number of guys that are just using age as an excuse for why their life sucks. Believe me, when they were "young" they had other limiting beliefs that were holding them back just as much, and as they got older, they transfered their insecurity onto their age. Remember, insecurity can take many forms and as one grows older, age becomes a convenient excuse.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify that it's FINE if a guy feels he has truly outgrown the bar scene. To each, their own. That is, as long as it's not a personal insecurity issue being pushed on others.
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