Dreaming about her at night... how to destroy neediness?!

[Mindgamez]

Hello guys,
The other day at school, this girl gave me a ton of IOIs. I didn't make my move that day, because I pussied out lol. I didn't really realize how powerful were the IOIs until I sat down and analysed everything.

She gently kicked my leg under her chair, she touched my shoulder with hers, she gave me warm smiles, she laughed at my boring comments and jokes, she poked me, she tried to steal my seat using her butt, blablah...

And then when I thought about it, I just kept saying myself that she probably is into me. I became very excited. I started thinking a lot about her and I kept dreaming about her at night. On a conscious level, I know it's not good to fall in love with a girl without being together yet since it makes us needy, but everytime I dream about her at night, the next morning she starts haunting me again. I think that if I get too needy about her, I'll feel very down if she says no.

I dreamt at least 4-5 times about her and at least 3-4 times this past week. I've never experienced that before. Did that happen to you guys before? Should I try to get her out of my mind?

Thanks guys

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Make a move. The dreams will go away once you have had her in reality. I have actually had this really recently, with one of those unnatainable girls. I went for others.

 

[Mindgamez]

I will definitely make a move once vacations are over (in 2 weeks...), because I don't want to ask her out on facebook. That would suck I think. Do you think that waiting is bad? Will she forget about me?

Anyway, thanks for advice

 

[LearningSlowly]

I'm praying that you have another opportunity to see her in person. I don't see this going perfectly smoothly if you have to ask her out over facebook.

Still, do what you gotta do. Don't let this one slip by, could be an omen. Make a move and 100% of the time you're happy you did, no matter what happens.

 

[Mindgamez]

You're right buddy. I should never be afraid of doing a move.

The other day on Christmas eve, I wrote on her facebook wall something like :

Heey Melissa, you know what? Well, I won't tell you and you'll have to wait til vacations are over because I want to annoy you! (jokes) By the way, stay awesome and keep smiling like you do, it's always pleasant! Merry Christmas
Then she said something like : Haha, have a merry Christmas and a happy new year!!

I don't know if it's a good way of being mysterious, or it just makes her go wtf? since I give pretty little information lol. I gave a compliment though, so I think what I did is not bad . What you guys think? Do I think too much about what I do?

Thankzzz

 

[Songz]

Oh dang. Mindgamez, best word of advice I can give you: Women want men.

You're seriously doing the girl a favor for talking to her, flirting with her, etc. Girls, especially in high school, are way too shy and insecure to make the first move. If you notice "IOI" (I hate that term), she WANTS you to make the 1st move. Give her what she always wanted man!! =))

 

[ohbe]

You should try and do no contact at all through messaging, cause I've had emotions take over before and write similar stuff, it just messes you up and you regret it in the future. Other than that, you're doing good. Just wait till the vacations are over and go for it.

 

[Mindgamez]

Guys thanks for support! I am feeling more confident about doing this