“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dreaming about her at night... how to destroy neediness?!

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Mindgamez

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Hello guys,
The other day at school, this girl gave me a ton of IOIs. I didn't make my move that day, because I pussied out lol. I didn't really realize how powerful were the IOIs until I sat down and analysed everything.

She gently kicked my leg under her chair, she touched my shoulder with hers, she gave me warm smiles, she laughed at my boring comments and jokes, she poked me, she tried to steal my seat using her butt, blablah...

And then when I thought about it, I just kept saying myself that she probably is into me. I became very excited. I started thinking a lot about her and I kept dreaming about her at night. On a conscious level, I know it's not good to fall in love with a girl without being together yet since it makes us needy, but everytime I dream about her at night, the next morning she starts haunting me again. I think that if I get too needy about her, I'll feel very down if she says no.

I dreamt at least 4-5 times about her and at least 3-4 times this past week. I've never experienced that before. Did that happen to you guys before? Should I try to get her out of my mind?

Thanks guys :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I will definitely make a move once vacations are over (in 2 weeks...), because I don't want to ask her out on facebook. That would suck I think. Do you think that waiting is bad? Will she forget about me?

Anyway, thanks for advice
 
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I'm praying that you have another opportunity to see her in person. I don't see this going perfectly smoothly if you have to ask her out over facebook.

Still, do what you gotta do. Don't let this one slip by, could be an omen. Make a move and 100% of the time you're happy you did, no matter what happens.
 
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You're right buddy. I should never be afraid of doing a move.

The other day on Christmas eve, I wrote on her facebook wall something like :

Heey Melissa, you know what? Well, I won't tell you and you'll have to wait til vacations are over because I want to annoy you! (jokes) By the way, stay awesome and keep smiling like you do, it's always pleasant! Merry Christmas :)
Then she said something like : Haha, have a merry Christmas and a happy new year!!

I don't know if it's a good way of being mysterious, or it just makes her go wtf? since I give pretty little information lol. I gave a compliment though, so I think what I did is not bad :). What you guys think? Do I think too much about what I do?

Thankzzz
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh dang. Mindgamez, best word of advice I can give you: Women want men.

You're seriously doing the girl a favor for talking to her, flirting with her, etc. Girls, especially in high school, are way too shy and insecure to make the first move. If you notice "IOI" (I hate that term), she WANTS you to make the 1st move. Give her what she always wanted man!! =))
 
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You should try and do no contact at all through messaging, cause I've had emotions take over before and write similar stuff, it just messes you up and you regret it in the future. Other than that, you're doing good. Just wait till the vacations are over and go for it.
 
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