"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dreamer!

kytestom

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I have worked in the same office with this girl for some time and over the few weeks she says she dreams about me most nights. Is she trying to tell me something? By the way we do a lot of flirting when we’re together.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Panda 2000

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When she dreams about you that means she's really into that other guy at your work, Steve. You know the one with the tie. And if she flirts with you that just confirms your suspicion that she likes Steve.
 
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She wants to have your kids.

Seriously man, on the face of it you might be in there, but you haven't given us much to go on!
 

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I’m the only male in the office. The dreams are about helping her do things around the home sometimes at her home and others in my home. We are very open with each other and talk freely about everything including sex.
 

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Originally posted by kytestom
I’m the only male in the office. The dreams are about helping her do things around the home sometimes at her home and others in my home. We are very open with each other and talk freely about everything including sex.
You need to invite her over to your place, ASAP.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want you read your post again and again and again until you get it.


because if you cant see that she is telling you she's keen, you really need to work on the "buy" signals girls give off, and how to detect them.


Also your rejecting this girl by not picking up on what she is trying to say.

"READ BETWEEN THE LINES MATE"
 

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Originally posted by kytestom
I have worked in the same office with this girl for some time and over the few weeks she says she dreams about me most nights. Is she trying to tell me something? By the way we do a lot of flirting when we’re together.
Well there is only one solution to this problem seek to dream her....also become a dreamer...tell her you wish to fvck her prior to her falling asleep and dreaming about you...
 
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