"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dreamer!
- Thread starter kytestom
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Panda 2000
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sexual_intellectual
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Seriously man, on the face of it you might be in there, but you haven't given us much to go on!
ShizamDaMan
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You need to invite her over to your place, ASAP.Originally posted by kytestom
I’m the only male in the office. The dreams are about helping her do things around the home sometimes at her home and others in my home. We are very open with each other and talk freely about everything including sex.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
because if you cant see that she is telling you she's keen, you really need to work on the "buy" signals girls give off, and how to detect them.
Also your rejecting this girl by not picking up on what she is trying to say.
"READ BETWEEN THE LINES MATE"
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Well there is only one solution to this problem seek to dream her....also become a dreamer...tell her you wish to fvck her prior to her falling asleep and dreaming about you...Originally posted by kytestom
I have worked in the same office with this girl for some time and over the few weeks she says she dreams about me most nights. Is she trying to tell me something? By the way we do a lot of flirting when we’re together.