"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dreamer!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Panda 2000
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sexual_intellectual
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Seriously man, on the face of it you might be in there, but you haven't given us much to go on!
ShizamDaMan
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You need to invite her over to your place, ASAP.Originally posted by kytestom
I’m the only male in the office. The dreams are about helping her do things around the home sometimes at her home and others in my home. We are very open with each other and talk freely about everything including sex.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
because if you cant see that she is telling you she's keen, you really need to work on the "buy" signals girls give off, and how to detect them.
Also your rejecting this girl by not picking up on what she is trying to say.
"READ BETWEEN THE LINES MATE"
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Well there is only one solution to this problem seek to dream her....also become a dreamer...tell her you wish to fvck her prior to her falling asleep and dreaming about you...Originally posted by kytestom
I have worked in the same office with this girl for some time and over the few weeks she says she dreams about me most nights. Is she trying to tell me something? By the way we do a lot of flirting when we’re together.