"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dreamer!
- Thread starter kytestom
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Panda 2000
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sexual_intellectual
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Seriously man, on the face of it you might be in there, but you haven't given us much to go on!
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You need to invite her over to your place, ASAP.Originally posted by kytestom
I’m the only male in the office. The dreams are about helping her do things around the home sometimes at her home and others in my home. We are very open with each other and talk freely about everything including sex.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
because if you cant see that she is telling you she's keen, you really need to work on the "buy" signals girls give off, and how to detect them.
Also your rejecting this girl by not picking up on what she is trying to say.
"READ BETWEEN THE LINES MATE"
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Well there is only one solution to this problem seek to dream her....also become a dreamer...tell her you wish to fvck her prior to her falling asleep and dreaming about you...Originally posted by kytestom
I have worked in the same office with this girl for some time and over the few weeks she says she dreams about me most nights. Is she trying to tell me something? By the way we do a lot of flirting when we’re together.