"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dream Girl on Facebook. Route of attack?

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Dear Don Juans,

I've came across my dream girl on Facebook! 3 mutual friends, all of whom I'm not close to. Nothing else in common between the 2 of us.

How would you approach this situation? And if I were to FB message her, what would be a good opening?

Background: I'm currently in a South-east Asian country. The girl is a Chinese girl.

Many thanks in advance for your help!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In my experience facebook messages don't worry ever unless the girl already is checking out your profile and has a crush on you. Seeing as you have 3 mutal friends I doubt she is and will probably come off creppy
 
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You can stop referring to her as your 'dream girl' for a start. This kind of pedastalisation will lose you the game before it even starts.

Don't do it: Image from http://i.imgur.com/HfyI2.gif.
 
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Message her discretely mentioning something that strikes you as a shared interest between the two of you.

You have nothing to lose.
 
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You already lost by calling her your dream girl...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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