"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dream Girl on Facebook. Route of attack?

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Dear Don Juans,

I've came across my dream girl on Facebook! 3 mutual friends, all of whom I'm not close to. Nothing else in common between the 2 of us.

How would you approach this situation? And if I were to FB message her, what would be a good opening?

Background: I'm currently in a South-east Asian country. The girl is a Chinese girl.

Many thanks in advance for your help!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In my experience facebook messages don't worry ever unless the girl already is checking out your profile and has a crush on you. Seeing as you have 3 mutal friends I doubt she is and will probably come off creppy
 
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You can stop referring to her as your 'dream girl' for a start. This kind of pedastalisation will lose you the game before it even starts.

Don't do it: Image from http://i.imgur.com/HfyI2.gif.
 
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Message her discretely mentioning something that strikes you as a shared interest between the two of you.

You have nothing to lose.
 
El Payaso

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You already lost by calling her your dream girl...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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