"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dream Girl on Facebook. Route of attack?

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Dear Don Juans,

I've came across my dream girl on Facebook! 3 mutual friends, all of whom I'm not close to. Nothing else in common between the 2 of us.

How would you approach this situation? And if I were to FB message her, what would be a good opening?

Background: I'm currently in a South-east Asian country. The girl is a Chinese girl.

Many thanks in advance for your help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In my experience facebook messages don't worry ever unless the girl already is checking out your profile and has a crush on you. Seeing as you have 3 mutal friends I doubt she is and will probably come off creppy
 
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You can stop referring to her as your 'dream girl' for a start. This kind of pedastalisation will lose you the game before it even starts.

Don't do it: Image from http://i.imgur.com/HfyI2.gif.
 
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Message her discretely mentioning something that strikes you as a shared interest between the two of you.

You have nothing to lose.
 
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You already lost by calling her your dream girl...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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