"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dream Girl on Facebook. Route of attack?

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pro_dudez

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Dear Don Juans,

I've came across my dream girl on Facebook! 3 mutual friends, all of whom I'm not close to. Nothing else in common between the 2 of us.

How would you approach this situation? And if I were to FB message her, what would be a good opening?

Background: I'm currently in a South-east Asian country. The girl is a Chinese girl.

Many thanks in advance for your help!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In my experience facebook messages don't worry ever unless the girl already is checking out your profile and has a crush on you. Seeing as you have 3 mutal friends I doubt she is and will probably come off creppy
 
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You can stop referring to her as your 'dream girl' for a start. This kind of pedastalisation will lose you the game before it even starts.

Don't do it: Image from http://i.imgur.com/HfyI2.gif.
 
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Message her discretely mentioning something that strikes you as a shared interest between the two of you.

You have nothing to lose.
 
El Payaso

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You already lost by calling her your dream girl...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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