DragonKi's BootCamp Journal

[dragonki]

Nothing to lose, no fear!

Tomorrow's mantra

 

[dragonki]

Spoke to two chicks today! Woot!

With one from yesterday, that's 7 left.

 

[macallik]

Wow, today was the most AFC day ever. Saw 2 chicks I would talk to and *****ed out.

Sort of recovered by talking to a waitress. If that even counts.

Hopefully snowboarding be more fruitful tomorrow. Why must talking to chicks be so hard?! The real question is, where can I find women that aren't waitresses or love clubbing.

Meetup groups have a higher quality of women than the club for sure. I'd check to see if there are any other groups in your area that might be appealing to you to meet women, or even create your own group. That will help you socialize as well as meet new women on a consistent basis.

 

[dragonki]

And the meetups continue!

Today at work, spoke to one chick, I think it went on for like 30 mins. Once they get started, it's hard to stop.

 

[dragonki]

Desperate times, call for desperate measures. To the bar on Friday! No ladies spoken to all day, it was a a office day.

 

[dragonki]

Welp, didn't goto the bar last night, and missed out on a cold approach on a chick I'd date.

Must overcome this freeze reaction when I see a good looking babe.

 

[dragonki]

Back in the lab trying to put my mind in the right place for approaching.

Back to focusing on effort, rather than results.

Good reads:
Approach mindset, they want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to them!
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/355.htm
Go out and get experience
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000773.html
The decades don't change this excellent tip! I forgot about 30/70, 40/60 talking ratio, and focused on being a mystery.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/converse.htm

More about getting to know a woman
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/talktowomen.htm

Alright, after reading some other journals, I've got a new paradigm on this approach thing. Women want to be chatted up, and it's our job to do it. I've never heard of a chick say that it's their job to go up and talk to a guy they like, ever. Not going to pick up women from being a nervous wreck that for sure!

Also I couldn't find this post:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096

from:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/daily-journal-for-cold-approaches.34241/

 

[dragonki]

Today was a great day fellas! Spoke to 2 women today, missed 2 that I would have spoken to. 4 left to go. Snowboarding This Wednesday. Hopefully going to hit up some ski bunnies.

This cute girl kept the conversation going, and made an effort with it. The addiction to success and talking to women begins. Still nerve wracking as hell though.

Getting more comfortable with the uncomfortable, so to speak.

Man, the best advice for me is to clam the hell down. It's like my brain is hijacked when trying to approach, but DJing is a state of mind. Getting into the flow feels so damn natural. Must approach more!

 

[dragonki]

Also, high caffiene content tea really helps! Especially cycling off for like 2 weeks.

 

[dragonki]

Also, no fapping until the challenge is complete. My nuts are so sore right now.