“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DragonKi's BootCamp Journal
- Thread starter dragonki
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Meetup groups have a higher quality of women than the club for sure. I'd check to see if there are any other groups in your area that might be appealing to you to meet women, or even create your own group. That will help you socialize as well as meet new women on a consistent basis.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Back to focusing on effort, rather than results.
Good reads:
Approach mindset, they want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to them!
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/355.htm
Go out and get experience
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000773.html
The decades don't change this excellent tip! I forgot about 30/70, 40/60 talking ratio, and focused on being a mystery.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/converse.htm
More about getting to know a woman
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/talktowomen.htm
Alright, after reading some other journals, I've got a new paradigm on this approach thing. Women want to be chatted up, and it's our job to do it. I've never heard of a chick say that it's their job to go up and talk to a guy they like, ever. Not going to pick up women from being a nervous wreck that for sure!
Also I couldn't find this post:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096
from:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/daily-journal-for-cold-approaches.34241/
This cute girl kept the conversation going, and made an effort with it. The addiction to success and talking to women begins. Still nerve wracking as hell though.
Getting more comfortable with the uncomfortable, so to speak.
Man, the best advice for me is to clam the hell down. It's like my brain is hijacked when trying to approach, but DJing is a state of mind. Getting into the flow feels so damn natural. Must approach more!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.